Some faaaaaking schmaaaak at my otherwise great University of Maryland took it upon himself to berate a girl who had been raped and miscarried before she had to make the decision to have an abortion. So I sent in this response, maybe they'll print it, woo hoo!
http://www.inform.umd.edu/News/Diamondback/archives/2004/11/29/commentary4.html
Mr. Hare, you must be very proud of yourself. You exercised your right to free speech by publicly excoriating a victim of rape, a woman who bravely shared her intense personal story of tragedy and moral anguish, and then you congratulated yourself on your graciousness and lucidity. I hope you saved some of your wrath and contempt for the person who raped her; but if so, you were too busy heaping scorn on her “grammatical and stylistic perils” – which eluded this reader – to let us know about it.
Instead of offering your own cogent argument, you treated us to the ridiculous spectacle of a man pompously lecturing a woman on how she is supposed to feel about her own pregnancy. Pointing out weaknesses in another’s argument doesn’t give merit to your own, especially if those weaknesses are imaginary. Despite whatever “lack of experience” you think Ms. Bulger had, she gave us a poignant example of the moral ambiguities present in the issue of abortion. And since you purport to have perfect moral clarity on this issue, and if you’re going to attack Ms. Bulger on her lack of qualifications, I would like to know yours – how many times have you been raped, how many times have you been pregnant and faced the decision to have an abortion, along with whatever emotional implications one may bring?
The morality of legal abortion and the humanity of a fetus are subjects that are debated, and it’s unlikely that this debate will ever come to an end. All you’ve done with your column is add another mundane contribution to the endless back-and-forth in which one side claims eternal righteousness and heaps scorn on the other. On the other hand, the morality of murder and genocide are not debated, at least not on any perceptible scale. About half the country sees abortion and murder as the same thing, and the other half does not. This disparity will never be resolved by printing the same arguments over and over in newspapers. You, Mr. Hare, will never convince me that a fetus has a soul (or indeed that any living being has a soul). And I will most likely not be able to convince you of the opposite. Most people in our society, especially those who are taught to think critically, recognize that an issue such as abortion carries irreconcilable moral ambiguity, and therefore it’s rarely helpful to spout and reiterate catch-all arguments that condemn one point of view and elevate another to the status of pure truth.
I may see some instances of abortion as immoral, but I don’t see myself as someone qualified to tell every woman what she should do with her own body. Furthermore, the job of the government is not to legislate morality, but to uphold the constitutional rights of all its citizens. Constitutional rights are guaranteed so that the minority does not live at the whim of the majority. Plenty of immoral acts – such as calling someone names or cheating on one’s wife – are legal and should stay that way.
Women in this country do have the right to a peaceful abortion, and your closing paragraph tinges with threatening language. On a few occasions, I’ve volunteered as an escort at abortion clinics around the area. Most of the protestors at these places are peaceful, repeating the Hail Mary or silently holding posters or photos. But a few take it upon themselves to rant maniacally at anyone who walks near the building. As an escort, it was my job to be a sponge and absorb that verbal diarrhea, and to deter passions from becoming dangerous. I can tell you that the “lawful rebukes” of such protestors accomplished nothing other than the raising of their own blood pressure.
You gallantly assert your right to verbally harass women who struggle with a moral dilemma. Do you think this is the best way you can work to reduce suffering in the world? Although I haven’t been schooled in the dogma of absolute morality, it seems to me that the dissemination of such loathing, contempt, condemnation, and smug self-righteousness as can be found in your column is morally destructive, not constructive.
Finally, anyone who misspells the final word of their column, “publicly” as “publically”, shouldn’t be gloating over someone else’s grammatical errors.
Nate